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Saturday, January 09, 2010

Christa's Christmas Greetings

As you can imagine, most days with the Flannery Family contain a lot of drama. With five children under the age of four, how could they not? In fact, if our family were compared to a theater, you would find nearly every role needed in our company. Here's how the production works:

Lana (3.5 years) is our writer and overall creative genius. She is always coming up with elaborate stories and plots and even creating her own words to familiar tunes. In 2009, Lana started preschool. Her sweet spirit and non-stop flow of conversation is enjoyed by all around her.

Ada (2.25 years) is without a doubt our acrobat and special effects. Her favorite activity is climbing up and down the top bunk. Though she refuses to use the ladder but instead chooses to maneuver her way over the safety rail. With Ada everything is bigger. Bigger fits and bigger love. I can see her watching a special effects explosion and saying "I think we can make that bigger."

Zella (16.5 months) is our techy. While the other three girls are playing together, Zella is often found off on her own, pushing buttons or delicately disassembling something with great attention and patience. Zella has just begun saying a few words, but usually communicates with elaborate facial expressions and grunts.

Tirza (16 months) is our music maniac. She loves nothing more than a good song and some dancing. Her rhythm is already better than both Brian and mine combined. While Zella communicates in silent pantomime, Tirza is already an explosion of words. She has nearly caught up with Ada.

In November we rolled out the red carpet for our newest addition. Judah was a surprise baby, in the truest sense. Brian and I had just agreed to try conceiving another child when we got the call that Tirza and Ada's baby biological brother was being born that day (November 24th)! Judah lived with my parents while we caught up on our foster care paperwork and officially moved in on December 30th. Jude (6 weeks) is currently the critic of the Flannery Family Theater. His wide eyes take in everything (when he's not sleeping). He mostly frowns at the shenanigans that occur around him. We look forward to watching his stoicism fade and personality develop.

Brian is our producer and business manager. In addition to making sure our bills are paid, he is always coming up with new, inventive ways of working. In the summer of 2009, he struck out on his own to try some various business ideas. During the past six months, we have learned so much about each other, and how to work and parent together. However, we also discovered that working from home was a little difficult. (With this many kids, it's impossible to hear yourself think, much less use the telephone. Brian's first job was sales by telephone. It did not work out so well). Now Brian is looking for some work outside of the home.

Me? I am the director, of course. My primary responsibilities are communicating stage cues (go here and do that), teaching lines (please and thank you), making sure that costumes are clean and correctly fitted and that the sets and props are all in their proper place. In 2009 I also tried my hand at some pubic relations. I am in charge of publishing the Newsletter for my local MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) group this year. Also, my friend Willow and I started a small photography business (2womenphotography.com).

This is no one-man production. Brian and I are so thankful to have each other (we celebrated our 4th Anniversary in June 2009), as well as this gifted company of players. We hope that you enjoy the show (we cross blog here and flannco.wordpress.com) - and that your own theatrical adventures in 2010 are grand!

Christa and Co.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Boxing Day!

At last. I have waited all year for Boxing Day.
Now I can finally teach these kids a lesson.

Christa and I noticed that Christmas came and went without much in the way of an annual newsletter from us. To remedy this oversight, we have composed the following summary of our lives as 2009 left them:

Biggest news:
We were on a roll to break a Flannery record for the year: No new children. Then a baby dropped into our laps on Thanksgiving day and it's a boy! We have dubbed him Jude.

Everyone was surprised at the idea of importing yet another human baby child. Zella was especially unceremoniously deposed, no longer the smallest and most fragile. Babies usually come after six to nine months warning. We had two days to decide. In fact, Christa's parents are still his official foster parents while we renew our foster care license.

Ada and Tirza seem thrilled to have their biological brother around. Now we just have to teach them what "gentle" means. All the girls (except Zella) received baby dolls for Christmas because they are newly obsessed with mothering. They would hide Care Bears in their shirts and amble slowly around the house, begging us to notice their baby. (We have good friends who had their first baby eleven days before Jude so the girls watched the whole process from belly to baby.)

When we finalized Ada's and Tirza's adoption in July, we expected to be done for a long time. We had barely agreed to consider conceiving another child when we got the call. We're not crazy but we do believe that people are the most important things in the world.


The work:
Lana started preschool this year and keeps embarrassing us by exploring her vocabulary. Brian left the big corporation to work for a small business and explore different endeavors.

Christa has met success with her new weekend photography business. She is also active in her MOPS group and composes the newsletter. Read it here: http://mopsinfo.blogspot.com/ Brian contributes the male perspective, POPS! (Unlike MOPS, POPS is not an acronym; it's an explosion.) Sample his back pages here: My Wife Left Me Today and Boys Are the Best.


If you browse some of the older posts here on this web-log ("blog" sounds so "blah" + "soggy" to me) you may notice that the last time I wrote anything for the greater internet's benefit was when Lana was born. Whew. Please forgive the gap. Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.

We love you all and wish you a beneficent 2010.
-Brian and Christa Flannery

PS. Truth-by-Consensus (Wikipedia) describes Boxing Day differently than I imagined it. Alas.